Planned Giving Gifts Honor Donors, Provide Needed Funding to Students
Sacred Heart University has been a grateful beneficiary of financial support from its many supporters and donors, but bequests to SHU that people specify in their wills are especially touching.
The family of alumna Nancy Egede-Nissen ’82 is in the process of establishing an endowed scholarship for Connecticut students studying social work who demonstrate a financial need. It is their way to honor and memorialize Nancy, who passed away in 2016. Throughout her life, she credited SHU for giving her opportunities that led to her successful and fulfilling career.
Nancy, a Trumbull native, enrolled in SHU’s social work program in 1979 at the age of 42. A single mother of three at the time, she was working long hours as an office manager when she realized social work was her true calling, said her husband Lars Egede-Nissen (the two met in the 1980s.)
Lars explained that his wife was in very difficult financial circumstances, as she was trying to support her family and tend to her medical needs as a type 1 diabetic. Financial help from SHU enabled her to enroll and find her passion.
“Nancy always said that SHU had so much compassion,” Lars recalled. “They saw the potential in her. Someone in that admissions department said, ‘She’s got it. She might not have a lot of money to pay for tuition, but let’s give her a scholarship and a shot at something great.’”
Planned gifts and bequests say thank you to SHU, but they also provide worthy students with the chance to serve others just like Nancy, her husband said.
At SHU, Nancy excelled in the social work program and went to Fordham University after graduation to earn her master’s in the field. She became an advanced clinical practitioner and was hired by former U.S. Senator Christopher Dodd as a case manager. Afterward, she worked at Family & Children’s Agency in Norwalk and at Connecticut Hospice before opening her own private practice. “She was an incredibly busy person,” Lars said.
Lars and Nancy met in Norwalk soon after Lars had been recruited from California to become executive director of Mid-Fairfield Hospice. The hospice had recently formed an alliance with Connecticut Hospice. Lars was so impressed by Nancy that he urged Connecticut Hospice to hire her. They did and stationed Nancy as their clinical coordinator in the Mid-Fairfield Hospice office.
The duo worked together for five years before a relationship blossomed. “One day we went out to dinner, and something just happened,” said Lars.
His expertise in running hospice centers took him from Connecticut to Maryland and then to Texas. The couple maintained a long-distance relationship, but when it came time for Lars to run a hospice in Houston, Nancy—a “true Connecticut Yankee”—decided to join him. The couple married and Nancy opened her private practice.
“She helped so many patients,” Lars said. Nancy received referrals from a local church and was able to help people improve their quality of life.
“All of the good work Nancy was able to accomplish started with SHU,” Lars said. “They gave her the keys to launch. This bequest is to say thank you … Nancy was always a person who said, ‘thank you.’”
“Nancy and Lars spent their entire professional careers helping others,” said Kierran Broatch, director of the Curtis Society for SHU’s advancement department. “It is very fitting and generous of Lars and the family to memorialize Nancy with this planned gift to establish an endowed scholarship, which will support social work students at Sacred Heart for generations to come. It is always rewarding to learn that this University has had such a positive impact on people that they are inspired to support the education of future Pioneers through their estate plans—and we are incredibly grateful for that.”